The foundation of an individual behavior is developed before 9 years old.
What does a baby know at birth? NOTHING - a baby actions are all instinctive.
We start to collect information the moment we are born, we are human
recorder for the first 4 years of life.
PERIOD OF LEARNING BEHAVIOR
A baby learns from examples, they record what they witness
and replay what they record. Have you heard, "Children say the darnest things"?
Kinder-Gardeners though 3rd graders (4.5 to 9 years of age)develop their foundation
belief system as their critical mind begins to develop. This period of time
the most IMPORTANT development time in life. This time will inlay how the individual will
live their life.
They includes becoming part of our communities, our newest citizens
need to learning what part they will play.
NEW CITIZENS
In most cases, going to school is the first exposure children have
to becoming citizen of the community. This is why it is so IMPORTANT for
immigrants to go to school to learn how to be good members of our community.
GOOD citizenship is NOT learned on the streets, just look at the News.
PERFECT FAMILY?
Behavior Modification would not be needed if all families were perfect.
Communities would be perfect by default. Unfortunately "real world" is not perfect,
just look how popular professionals like Dr. Phil have become. Ask any parent
who has a child that has been affected by criminal behavior, the
horror and sadness they live with.
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CHANGE HUMANE NATURE
Are you an adult? Have you ever tried to stop a behavior that has become
instinctive? Have you ever tried to stop smoking, loose weight, stop shopping,
change how you speak or stopped gamble? Have you ever froze when taking a test?
How about eating different food or looking or not looking at the keys as you type?
Do you think every time you stop for a red light or how you hold a pen. Have you
ever tried eating with chop stix's rather than a spoon and fork? You know how
hard a very simple change can be to make. What does it take to change (rehabilitate)
any of those behaviors? How long could you continue the change without a single
back slide?
HOW DO YOU CHANGE INSTINCT?
Think of the time, money and resources it takes for successfully Rehabilitation
INSTINCTIVE Behavior.
The Behaviors that are now becomes part of the instinctive personality of the
individual, our auto thinking and doing.
The Behavior that is as much a part of us as our hand, our tongue or eyes,
in most cases just like breathing.
Rehabilitation is the process of taking conscious control of our auto behaviors,
the instinctive personality characteristic that otherwise would determine our behavior
and then doing otherwise.
It is clear to see why it is very costly and not rewarding to try to
Rehabilitation adults behaviors that is instinctive criminal behavior.
Stop and think, how did they develop their current belief? ANSWER: Getting rewarded for
poor behavior as a child. How do you empower any person that believes they are
already more powerful than the community?
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